Believe The Impossible

Every great achievement was once impossible until someone set a goal to make it a reality.

Lewis Carroll's famous masterpiece Through the Looking Glass contains a story that exemplifies the need to dream the impossible dream. There is a conversation between Alice and the queen, which goes like this:

"I can't believe that!" said Alice.

"Can't you?" the queen said in a pitying tone. "Try again, draw a long breath, and shut your eyes."

Alice laughed. "There's no use trying," she said. "One can't believe impossible things."

"I dare say you haven't had much practice," said the queen. "When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast."

When you dare to dream, many marvels can be accomplished. The trouble is, most people never start dreaming their impossible dream.

Stand Up And Speak Up

Stand Up And Speak Up

Courage is the ability to face danger.

uncertainty or pain

Without being peralyzed by fear.

If you're experieriencing problems with getting results in regards to your Money , family , agreementa or questions - Stand Up And Speak Up.

If you need help -Stand Up And Speak Up.

If you see injustice or a need - Stand Up And Speak Up.

If some one is taking your kindness for weakness - Stand Up And Speak Up.

If tou're feeling pressured to do something against your values

Or time constraints -Stand Up And Speak Up.

If you are not clear and feeling anxious about what others are asking or

Expecting from you -Stand Up And Speak Up.

If you want to turn your life around in a positive direction - Stand Up And Speak Up.

If someone is taking advantage of your time , money ,body, turst , love or

Friendship -- Stand Up And Speak Up.

If there is something in life you want to accomplish -- Stand Up And Speak Up.

Friendship is like this only....

Friendship is not about “I m sorry “ its about “abbe teri galti hai “

Friendship is not about “I m there for u” or “I missed u “ it’s about “kahan marr gaya saale “

Friendship is not about “I understand “ its about “sab teri wajah se hua manhus“

Friendship is not about “I care for u “ its about “kamino tumhe chhod ke kahan jaunga “

Friendship is not about “I m happy for ur success “its about “chal party de saale“

Friendship is not about “I love that girl“ its about “saalo izzat se dekho tumhari bhabhi hain “

Friendship is not about “R u coming for outing tomorrow “ its about “ nautanki nahi, hum kal bahar ja rahe hai “

Friendship is not about “Get well soon “ its about “ Itna piyega toh yehi hoga“

Friendship is not about “All the best for ur career“ its about “ bahut hua, abhi toh switch mar saale“

Tum ko Maloom bhi shayad ye kabhi ho k na ho

Tum ko Maloom bhi shayad ye kabhi ho k na ho..!!

Meri Raatein. Teri Yaadon se saji rehti hain

Meri Saansein Teri Khushbo mai basi rehti hain

Meri Aankhon mai Tera Sapna saja rehta hai

Haan Mere Dil mi Tera hi Aks basa rehta hai

Is tarah Mere Dil ke boht Paas ho Tum

Jis tarah paas hi Sheh-e-Rag ke Khuda rehta hai

Tum ko Maloom bhi shayad ye kabhi ho k na ho..!!

Mere Aangan mai lage phool gawahi deinge

Mai ne Arsey se kisi Phool ko dekha bhi nahi

Tujh ko socha hai to phir Tujh ko hi socha hai

Tere siwa.. kisi aur ko socha bhi nahi

Tum ko Maloom bhi shayad ye kabhi ho k na ho..!!

DON’T TAKE THINGS FOR GRANTED

With Thanksgiving coming, let’s remember once again how important it is to be grateful for what we have. Don’t be so busy with your life that you never stop and count your blessings. Don’t just want more and more without ever expressing your gratitude for what you already have.

I recently read You: The Owner’s Manual, a very good book on health. There is plenty of good advice there. But reading the book also made me realize one thing: there are so many things that could go wrong in our bodies. Your body has hundreds (if not thousands) of parts and if even one of them goes wrong, you will suffer. What if you couldn’t see or hear? What if your kidney didn’t do its job? Being healthy is a great blessing but we often take it for granted.

The same thing applies to practically every other aspects of our lives. A few days ago I had a power outage. There was no electricity which meant no computer, no Internet, no television, and even no lighting. The outage lasted for just a few hours but it made me realize how important electricity is to our modern lives. I took electricity for granted and only when it was gone did I feel how important it actually is.

I can continue on and on but the message is clear: don’t take things for granted. Be grateful. Even seemingly small things matter.

Do You Understand Your Child..?

Understand Your Childrens

4 years ago, an accident took my beloved away and very often I wonder, how does my wife, who is now in the heavenly realm, feel right now? She must be feeling extremely sad for leaving a husband who is incapable to taking care of the house and the kid. 'cos that is the exact feeling that I have, as I feel that I have failed to provide for the physical and emotional needs of my child, and failed to be the dad and mum for my child.

There was one particular day, when I had an emergency at work. Hence, I had to leave home whilst my child was still sleeping. So thinking that there was still rice leftovers, I hastily cooked an egg and left after informing my sleepy child.

HOW DO YOU KNOW IF YOU MARRIED THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of my seminars, a woman asked me a

question. She said, "How do I know if I married

the right person?"

I noticed that there was a large man sitting next

to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your

husband?"

In all seriousness, how do you know?

Here's the answer.

EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning,

you fell in love with your spouse. You

anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and

liked their idiosyncrasies.

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In

fact, it was a completely spontaneous

experience. You didn't have to DO anything.

That's why it's called "falling" in love - because

it's happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept off my

feet." Think about the imagery of that

expression. It implies that you were just

standing there; doing nothing, and then something

came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and

spontaneous experience.

But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria

of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY

relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls

become a bother (if they come at all), touch is

not always welcome (when it happens), and your

spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute,

drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every

relationship, but if you think about your

marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference

between the initial stage when you were in love

and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start

asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as

you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of

the love you once had, you may begin to desire

that experience with someone else. This is when

marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse

for their unhappiness and look outside their

marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and

sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But

sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a

friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie

outside your marriage. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love

with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY

you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same

situation a few years later. Because (listen

carefully) THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN

MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S

LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous

experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You

can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it

day in and day out. That's why we have the

expression "the labour of love." Because it takes

time, effort, and energy. And most importantly,

it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to

make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love

is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you

can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed

with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe

(such as gravity), there are also laws for

relationships. Just as the right diet and

exercise program makes you physically stronger,

certain habits in your relationship WILL make

your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and

effect. If you know and apply the laws, the

results are predictable - you can "make" love