HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR LIFE PARTNER

Choosing your life partner is not a hard task provided that you become aware of little facts that very few people are aware of.

People often confuse themselves by physical attraction and the happiness they experience when certain chemicals are released in their bodies with love.

Yes after all love is based on physical attraction (in most cases) but if you forgot about everything else and depended on the chemicals alone you will surely end up with the wrong person.

Chemicals + logic

Of course you can’t pick up someone using logic without having some kind of attraction towards him else the relationship will be very cold, on the other hand, making choices based on passion alone will result in ruining the relationship when the chemicals that used to be released start to decrease.

The right way to pick a partner is choose someone using pure logic from those you had been attracted to already. So if you know 100 people and felt something towards 3 of them (at different times of course) you must then base your choices on logic.

For example if you are an 18 years old girl and became attracted towards a 45 years old man then your logic should tell you that this relationship is not long lived and that you should forget about it.

Finding your soul mate

When you start using logic to choose your partner you will need some basic guidelines to follow in order to make sure that your logic will lead you to correct choices.

For example you must look for someone who has complementary traits, common interest, similar belief system, tolerable bad habits and same intellectual level.

Don’t fall in the trap of wanting to live with someone forever because of physical attraction or even feelings, but let feelings come first then allow logic to control the feelings so that you don’t choose the wrong life partner.